Feminine gay guys scare me?

alright im bi so im not homophobic but feminine guys are just too much for me like the overly feminine ones but some are ok. the ones who are like guys but with a girl mind are just weird to me lol but not in a bad way just i guess i have to get used to it its weird when a guy in masc too but acts like a girl like buff gay guys freak me out. basically i like guys who acts like guys, . but what about you guys how do you feel?